So, I'm wondering what I should get the guy I'm dating for Valentine's day. I've been told that Valentine's day is a woman's holiday and guys couldn't really care any less, but then I've also heard some guys really do enjoy recieving gifts as well. We've only been dating for two months. It's a short period of time, but it feels like forever. Of course I don't want to go out of my way monetarily, but then again, I don't want him thinking, "my daughter could have done better." Since he works two jobs, has a child, and is always busy, I thought about maybe just a nice relaxing evening at his place, candles and a massage? I'm new to this. I've never felt this way about anyone before. So does anyone have any ideas? Any tips?

I'm happy where he and I are in our....relationship(?). He makes me so happy. Earlier he texted me and I screamed "yay!" I didn't mean to, but with him working day in and day out, it's a wonderful feeling when I hear from him. Anyway, we decided to slow things down. I really feel like he's sincere when he talks about the way he feels about me. I understand the reason why he keeps me at bay though and I hope we can find a solution, but all in due time.

Anyway, he's mentioned a couple times how he wishes I was the one he could come home to after a long day of work. I mean, I know he's not talking about me moving in because that'd just be crazy and absurd. but it does sound like he wants to get as much time in as possible with me."I wish you were at home waitin on me so I could kiss you and then go to sleep while I hug you tight..." "...I just need a good back rub when I get off but I have no one to do that for me." I would say that this is by far the most difficult situation i have found myself in. Yes, I've talked to guys with children before, but it was never anything serious. But with him, he has a child, works two jobs, has a crazy past and his present addiction is a challenge for us. I'm not complaining because I'm willing to work with him. And I never expect to be first in his life. I expect to ALWAYS come second after his child. If for any reason he puts me before her, then that's not the man I need to be with.

All I have to say is he makes my day and I am so much in like with my baby!

 

{Jael Monique}

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